Barney Oldfield

Birth date: Jan 17, 1937 Death date: Sep 18, 2013

James M. Oldfield was never known by his given name, he was known by friends and family as Barney. Barney was born on January 17, 1937 in Marion, Indiana. He was one of four children born to James and Alta Oldfield. He came to San Read Obituary

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Karin Oldfield

627w ago

Farewell my Friend and Father In Law you're leavingit's time for you to go,Things I feel so most deeply are the hardest things to say.My Dearest Barney, I love youin a very special way.Your friendship was a blessingand I will miss you so.We've shared so many secretsand at times we've laughed and cried.You've taught me so muchand brought me happiness with your kind and caring ways.I don't think you could ever knowhow much you've touched my lifeand just how special you were.It was so hard to 'Let You Go'and when the time came and I finally did,I knew God would be there to catch you.A part of my heart you took with youbut your love you left me to keep.So we never really partedThe bond between us is just too deep.I LOVE you dad!Your Daughter In Law& caregiver,Karin Oldfield

Dorothy Courtney

627w ago

As one of the Erin Lane Family I can attest to the wonderful afternoons when we gathered under that pine tree. As well as the fun times in the desert riding dirt bikes with the Family. That was indeed the village we raised our family in. Barney and Donnie will long be loved and remembered by the friends and family left behind. They will live on as we tell the stories to grandkids and great grandkids. We will meet again under the Pine tree in heaven.Love you allDottie & Jeff Courtney

Eddie Panko

627w ago

Whenever I think of Barney I always remember his big brown Ford Pickup, with running boards, and lights…and more lights. Yes, the man did love his lights! But mostly I remember his and Donnie's kindness and helpfulness to me with my many extended visits to their homes in Poway and Escondido. Some of the best memories of my life are from those visits. Barney was always wanting to help me work on my car, at times much more than I did. One summer I drove out from Oklahoma in a car that had been stored for quite some time, by the time I returned at the end of the summer Barney had that car rehabbed better than new! He taught me how to change fluids, belts, hoses, filters, you name it. I was able to drive that car for years afterward due to his help but I really think he did it just so he could make fun of me later trying to get the grease and oil out of my fingernails! I regret that I will not be able to attend his memorial service. My condolences to you all.

Diane Oldfield

627w ago

As Barney's (I called him Jim) future sister-in-law, Tom and I spent many evenings with Jim and Donnie in their cozy home in Poway, mostly talking. When Tom got out of the Navy, he lived with Jim and Donnie. Whenever i called to talk to Tom, Jim would answer and, not being able to tell their voices apart-I made several dates with Jim instead of Tom!! Finally I became suspicous whenever I spoke to him! He was a great kidder! I will miss his teasing and his kind heart! Diane Oldfield

Joseph Lemon Jr

627w ago

God bless you family of Mr. Oldfield.He would be very, very proud of you, as am I.

Judy Apodaca

627w ago

my condolences go out to you all.he sounds like a wonderful man. much wonderful memories. my thoughts and prayers are with you all

Cheryl Cook

627w ago

A friend of mine after hearing about Dad's passing told me that I was one of the lucky ones. She is right. Dad showed me what it was to take pride in a job well done, showed me how a real man takes care of his family above all else, and showed me romantic love between a husband and wife. Really what else is important? The life I have now is because of him and Mom, and I will be forever grateful. My heart is broken, but it will mend and I will have great memories of my father to share with others.I love you Dad.

Karin Oldfield

627w ago

Father In Law stand for:F flashlightsA andT toolsH He'sE EverR ReadyI IfN NeededL Lovingly LendingA AW Wrist and a Wench!!Love Ya DadKarin

Jan Simpson

627w ago

I appreciate the times I saw Jim (called that at the OTHER Barney's house!) while visiting my sister Diane at family gatherings. He was the quiet brother who would slip in a "zinger" unexpectedly with his dry sense of humor and crack us all up. Diane's sister Jan

Daniel Oldfield

627w ago

Dear Grandpa Barney, I miss you and I love you so much. I remember helping you build and paint the birdhouses. We also put together the airplane model and the dirt bike one too. I was so glad when you moved into the house because then I could see you everyday. My favorite thing we did was plant strawberries and tomatoes in the garden together. I used to like to bring you diet 7-Up and read books to you. I will miss going desert camping without you. Now you will be closer to our kite when I'm flying it.Love Your Grandson,Daniel (age 7)

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