Frances V. Goerlitz

In the time that I worked for Goerlitz family, up until Harvey passed, I found myself constantly inspired by the love that they shared and the way that power of what that love can do. As they were met more frequently by the trials and tribulations of daily life, they constantly made adjustments, despite their own difficulties, to get through each day, side by side. The love was almost palpable, and it was truly inspiring. The love that they had for Rob and Barb, whom they spoke of constantly, would shine in their eyes as they shared the latest update from the talks they'd had the night before. Rob and Barbara, they were so very proud of you two. I learned some very important things in my time with them, but most importantly, they reminded me that at the end of this life, all we can take with us is the love we give and the love we receive. They were rich in both.

I love you mom. Your not there for me to call at night but I talk to you just the same. I'm sorry the last year or 2 of life were so very hard on you. But that's all over now. I pray that your spirit is free and all the questions about this life are now answered. We had so many talks on that subject. I keep hoping you will be able to communicate with me somehow. Maybe you have. I can still feel you watching over me and having influence in my life. I thank you for everything you did for me before passing and for all you will do after passing over. I am such a lucky person to have been loved the way you loved me. I could hear it in your voice on the phone and feel it in your hug at the front door when we would come to El Cajon to visit after being back home for a long period. I'm so glad your not alone anymore. I'm so glad Parkinsons has no grip on you. I'm so glad your with all those who have been waiting for you who love you with a boundless universal yet personal love. I know so little mom. But one day I will see you and look in your eyes and say "ohhhhh, so thats how it works". And things will make sense for me to. And you will smile a big, full beautiful smile. I love you. I miss you so much. I could type for a long time but this is not the place for that. Peace and Happiness to you. Let me know your here. Angels can do that. Your son, Rob

Barbara and Robert, there are no special words to fix a time like this. Know that God loves and cares about you very much. Your parents would be so very proud of you. I am sorry to meet with you again in such a short time but am sure Mom would find a way to point that finger in my face if I didn't. She was who she was and had her own way of doing things but I know without a doubt, that she truly, truly loved her kids.God bless you,