Birth date: Mar 3, 1978 Death date: Oct 22, 2014
You were the best of sons, of brothers, of husbands, of lovers, and of workers. We would only part with you knowing that you are safe in Christ’s arms. You will be deeply and sorely missed. We love you. Read Obituary
John will be missed so much. I will always remember our trips to Disneyland and Sea World where he joined us and acted as our tour guide.
Santa Monica selfie
Santa Monica trip
I remember John had a ready, quiet smile at Point Loma. He always seemed very helpful and patient in the Computer Lab.
From the Remembrance: My Lover Man, I know how much you liked this French song by Celine. It holds even more significance in light of recent events. Remember as Celine says, ?..it?s a very passionate song, that speaks about, loving someone so much, that you are prepared to give up everything on Earth, for that person?s love in return?.I guess, many of us know that feeling.? I love you so much, and miss you something terrible. I couldn?t have imagined my life without you. You were here one second, and gone the next. I always thought you would have to take care of this for me. I hope you have had an amazing feast upon your arrival. A hungry husband is not something people should see. I am sure by now you have had some awesome workouts. Oh John, we had so much left to do. I enjoyed all the adventures we did get to have, over the almost, 10 years. I will miss our frequent trips to the Happiest Place on Earth. I will miss going to see our Broadway shows together. I will miss seeing Celine concerts with you. I will miss working out together. I will miss your cooking for every meal. BTW, Julie and I tried to make the Chicken Basil; it just didn?t taste the same. Everyone at work is not going to be jealous of my lunches anymore either! I will miss how everyday you packed my lunch for work. In the evening, I really miss you and being next to you. It is so lonely and quiet at our home without you. I am going to miss not being able to touch you. I just miss you and everything about you! I will always remember, when I got tickets for Wicked. You said, why did you do that? I don?t really want to see it. I said, I could ask someone else to go. I heard it is a really good show. You of course came with me and by the end of the first act you were so happy and couldn?t wait for it! Remember, the kids singing the songs and the mom was like be quiet, other people want to listen to the actual performance? I am glad it became one of your favorites. I will be thinking about you tremendously next month when we had our tickets to go. Oh My Man, I can?t imagine my life without you. You are my everything and you not being with me has left such a huge hole in me. I am so scared; there is so much to think about and make decisions about. Everyone has been offering so much; these decisions are not fun to be making. Please help me in anyway you can. You know how much I value you and your opinions. I brought a few things from home that reminds me so much of you. Your gym bag and gloves. You always had so much energy. You are still crazy for doing Trainer Lance?s workouts for almost an hour, and then coming home and going for a cardio workout for half an hour. I wish you could give me some of this energy! Your cell phone. I know you can?t live without it. Duffy ? in stitch costume. The Disney bear from our bed. So cute you were snuggling with duffy until I would join you. Your work ID and lunch bag. I am so happy you enjoyed work so much. You put so much of yourself into Cari.net for over 18 years, right? You know I can?t keep track because it is has been so long. Your lunch bag, of course it has to be your favorite color, and has the necessities to have a happy man. A fed man is just better for everyone involved. A hungry man is not a happy sight. Stitch painting. Darren Wilson?s artwork is so cool. We both just fell in love with his art pieces right away. Remember when we were walking through the World of Disney and I said, John look! I just knew it was perfect, instantly, and that you would love it and boy did you! It was so cool he commented about you, I had to let his know how much joy his artwork gave us. It seemed like every night when were stretching you would be looking at it. My man, I love you always and forever. I think it is time to go the Happiest Place on Earth and I?m ready to go with you! Your one and only
I have only met John a few times and found out by experience that John is a wonderful cook. I kept telling him he should be a chef. I wish I got to know John more.
