Birth date: Jul 17, 1957 Death date: Jun 28, 2022
On July 17th, 1957, Bernadetta Dair was born to Clarence and Ruthie Dair in San Francisco California. Ruthie remarried to Ruben Pratt in 1962 and the family relocated to San Diego, California, where Bernadette grew up. She graduat Read Obituary
Bernadette is the best sister-in-law one could have. Always supportive, humorous and a light in this world.
She impacted so many lives and we will remember her with love.
Bernadette I can't believe that you're gone I will truly miss you I didn't know it was goodbye the last time I talked with you but I would never forget you we grew up together and maybe housing we shared a lot of beautiful moments always your sister Cleo
Bernadette this is so hard. I just can’t believe you are no longer here. We where planning to attend the Taste of Soul this October as always, I want be going. I’m going to miss our all nights talks and laughs even sometime cries. We shared so many stories. Rolling down the hwy from LA to San Diego. And all the other crazy things we use to do. I’m am truly going to miss you. Rest peacefully in Heaven. Love Torey. 🥲😇🙏🏽🕊️💕
Bernadette was my sister in law who became my soul sister. She generously imparted words of wisdom, compassion for all, and unconditional love to everyone. She forgot nothing but forgave everyone. She was the thread that wove a long and winding, comforting blanket of love that covered all of us who knew her; time nor distance mattered. Bernadette’s sense of humor and wit was joyful. She was a fierce advocate for those she loved. She was a truth teller; even when you didn’t want to hear it. I’m thankful for that. Bernadette’s strength, endurance and grace was unsurpassed. She is and always will be the epitome of family, love, and care. I love her with all my heart and soul.
I have so many memories of Bernadette. The most memorable moments were the times everybody would travel to Dallas Tx & stay with us for weeks at a time & we would come to San Diego & stay with them,. My Mom (Evelyn) would stay for months. She loved Bernadette- her flee market shopping buddy. It’s so hard to say how I feel, loosing Bernadette makes me immediately think of my Mom, now I live on without both. Bernadette was a special . She did special things, & that made you feel special. I never will forget the time She met me in Vegas just to take me down town. May all of our memories bring us peace. My love always & forever. Vanessa
Love you my SISTAR. Gone too soon. You will truly be missed. David & Dasha call me if you need to talk. Love you all
Bernadette,
Thank you for being the best godmother ever. You helped raised me as your own and loved me for me. I love you so much and I will miss you dearly. You are no longer in pain and please watch over all your girls down here 💕. In your memory anytime I hear the electric slide, I will run out there and teach the youngins how “Bernie” did it. My queen, rest now.
I miss you so dearly, you are no longer shackled by this unconventional life I’m glad you are enlightened with bliss and see the world from above with eyes wide open.
Stay with me , guide me thank you for teaching me everything you have taught me. I love you I live for you. I’m thankful for you. I love I love you I love you. This hurts so much but one day we will be together again. I love you mommy
My heartfelt condolences to David, Denette and family. I thank God for the time and experiences I shared with my dear and sweet friend, Bernadetta. My memories of her warm heart, loving expression to others are perpetual. Feeding and clothing the homeless and watching her visit and spend time with so many elderly people. She was their family, she is family to me. A two time Past Matron of Ada B. Cleveland #71, OES, displayed her desires to lead, but she was always working in and for the Chapter. Thank you David and Dejanette for supporting her in all that she did.
