Birth date: May 18, 1924 Death date: Nov 24, 2021
Vivian May Pfahler was born on May 18, 1924, in Milwaukee Wisconsin to Erna Sass and Alfre Nuetvel. Vivian attended school at Rufus King. Vivian started working at an early age at Matt's Lettering Company for about three years, sh Read Obituary
The good Lord has you wrapped in His loving arms with your family. I was so blessed to have met you and shared those juicy tangerines with the Danage family.
Gone but never forgotten!
❤️ Love 💘
Danage Family
These are just a few memories that we share with Vivian over the years.
We can't see your face, or hear your voice, but we remember your smiles, your hugs
your love. We are not sad because you are at peace and rest, Nver be weary, no more pain, only joy and happiness. You have crossed over into a better place, But the Heavenly spirit of you will remain with us forever. We will miss you and our love for you will be everlasting. R.I.P. Al & Marie
I feel so blessed to have known Vivian. My mother and Vivian were high school friends and she became a good friend and confidante to me as an adult. She was always supportive and nonjudgmental. She was like a second mom to me. I will miss her laugh, upbeat spirit, and her unwavering support. She will always have a special place in my heart and she will be missed dearly. Love you and miss you Vivian. Regards, Janis
Vivian and my mother became best friends through bowling together since the late '50s.
Back in 2010, my mother became ill and ended up at a convalescent center. My brother and I went there each day to visit her, and Vivian came almost as often. Our mother joked with Vivian, saying that if something happened, she wanted Vivian to "adopt" Randy and I, so we wouldn't become orphans. She passed away a few months later, and Vivian told us what our mother had said. We said we would like that very much.
Randy and I decided that if we had been "adopted", then we would start coming over to visit on a regular basis. That grew into a weekly event, where we would visit, water the plants, bring over some BBQ or leftovers, and do a handyman project, if needed.
Vivian had a positive attitude and seldom complained, even with the physical challenges she faced. I will sure miss her, and the times we visited, had lunch and dinner together, and talked about Padres baseball.
RIP Vivian,
Larry Clark
Vivian and my mother were on bowling teams since the late '50s. I remember, back in 1985, going to watch them bowl while on my lunch break. Vivian was a very good bowler, and bowled with my mother for over 40 years. They grew to become best friends.
After my mother passed away in 2010, my brother Larry and I started visiting Vivian. This grew into a weekly routine right up until the end. I will miss our visits and daily phone calls. Those things became a regular part of our lives. She was loved very much by our family. May she rest in peace.
Randy Clark
